"... don't feel bad if people remember you only when they need you... Feel privileged that you are like a candle that comes to their mind when there is darkness..."

The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The likeness of the one who sits and listens to wisdom then only speaks of the bad things that he has heard, is that of a man who comes to a shepherd and says, ‘O shepherd, give me one of your sheep to slaughter,’ and (the shepherd) says, ‘Go and grab the ear of the best of them.’ Then he goes and grabs the ear of the sheepdog.” [Sunan Ibn Majah]